That doesn't mean we have to rewrite our entire moral system to redefine every awful thing that's about to happen to us as Good, Actually just because the people who voted for him might be among those who will suffer.
I'm not so far gone that I'll welcome someone's plan to blow up my house with me in it just because someone I don't like is also in there.
I feel your analogy is flawed. Let me see if I can clarify my point.
I've not rewritten anything. My moral code remains the same. What has changed is my tolerance. I no longer give cursory politeness when confronted by a MAGAT. I do not tolerate the casual rudeness aimed my direction or at the people I care about and love. I am now very quick to tell someone they can hug off and cut them wholesale from my life.
As to the second, the house is on fire. And those of us who disagree with Trump and refute everything he stands for have been told to expect no help, no rescue, nothing. We're being left to burn. Personally, I'm hoping it burns his followers just as much, if not more.
To use your metaphor, our houses are already being blown up. We cannot stop that. I'm looking forward to THEIR houses taking massive collateral damage when they trigger the bomb that takes mine.
Nothing about what is going to happen is good. That's just sarcasm and fatalism. What I think is good is that more and more Trump voters are realizing that their worlds are also fucked because they ignored literally everyone with any credibility and voted him and his ilk in. And I relish that dawning realization. That moment of comprehension when their eyes are finally opened to the fact that neither he nor anyone with him gives a damn about anyone else. That they compromised their morals, their principles, their religious fervor, all in service of Judas.
That epiphany, that moment it all clicks in their head as the blinders fall and they see their houses are also on fire, that is what I enjoy. The schadenfreude is delicious.