There's something I've been thinking about.
A few months back I went back home for my best friend's wedding.
And I was struck at just how... dull and worn down... places that used to seem exciting were.
I haven't lived there since grad school which was over ten years ago (holy hell I'm old) and maybe I needed to see it again for it to click... but it did. Since then, and coming back to the city I now call home, I've looked around, and I can see the same stuff. I didn't grow up here, but I see the same sorts of things I saw in my home town.
Storefronts that likely used to be busy and full of life now reduced to extreme discount storefronts, if they're lucky to even be open still. Arcades and movie theatres that look barren and neglected but which, probably 30 years ago, were vibrant and exciting.
McDonalds has stripped all the fun out of their locations, now consisting of sterile minimalist interiors where you order from a touch screen.
But hey, at least they still have a sit down option. Pizza Hut, the place to be when I was 10, doesn't even have that anymore. I racked up so much time at the arcade machines at my local Pizza Hut as a kid but now... now it's closed, replaced with a takeout location across the street.
The stuff that defined our childhoods in the 80s and 90s could be crass at times, and were almost universally commercial in nature.
But you know what? They were cheesy, but they represented progress and excitement.
It's been something on my mind since getting back from my friend's wedding.
I didn't want to devolve into "BACK IN MY DAY" mental traps, because sometimes things move on and new stuff isn't bad just because it's not what you're used to.
But the more I've thought about it, the more I've realized that there is something missing that we used to have.
And if that had been replaced with something else just as special that would be one thing. Instead, everything now is overly minimalistic and barren, if it hasn't been shut down completely.
I'm probably still coming off like an old guy complaining, but what you posted got me put these thoughts of mine down for the first time in months.
As a father of a newly 16-year-old, I'm seeing for the first time a lot of how the world has changed for kids/teens for the first time, too. I think what was lost was the idea that you left home to go do fun things with your friends (and/or family.) Like you said, a lot of what is gone now was ALWAYS crass/commercial. Arcades, movie theaters, convenience stores, and restaurants were always 100% designed to separate us from our money, but you were doing it outside the home with other people. "Kids these days" don't seem to just go out and do things anymore. Well, they do, but not nearly to the extent that we did. Kids can communicate by texting / on-line video games / etc. You don't have to call someone's house on a landline and talk to their parents while your friend was located.
Adult things are the same way, of course. But since it's my first time being an adult, I don't notice it like I notice how being a teenager has changed, but I'm sure it has. So much of what people do today is done from a screen in their homes. The carnival-barker atmosphere that used to be used to attract us off of the street and into businesses slowly disappeared once it was no longer worth the investment.