I know P&R is bit more wild west than the rest of the board, but this is out of line. Telling a poster they are too dumb to know what there own interests are, and what's best for there family is something that shouldn't be ok for any member to post, let alone an admin.
Are you actually saying that someone can't
be objectively wrong about what's in their family's interests?
If so....I disagree in the strongest possible terms.
The idea that people (usually fathers/husbands) can "decide" what's best for their family, instead of having a responsibility to
learn what's best, is not just incorrect. It's not even just incorrect on a deeper level than believing something untrue about a politician is.
It's one of the most harmful of all beliefs.
It's why parents who believe nonsense can get away with not vaccinating their kids; it's why so-called parents can hit their kids and not be charged with a crime; it's a major part of why even what
does meet the too-narrow definition of child abuse often goes unreported.