It's ultimately up to you to find your own answers and I hope you can figure out what, if anything, you want to do.
That last post of mine was not a joke, though. There are trans people who happily transition who don't feel like they're "in the wrong body". While that kind of strong body dysphoria is common in the pre-transition trans community, it is not a requirement. You don't necessarily have to hate being a man to prefer being a woman. People in a scenario like that are definitely trans but less likely to transition because they don't feel the pressure to escape their current situation. It comes down to how their desire compares to the amount of work it takes. There's also people who are gender fluid or non-binary, which adds a lot more complications I'm not sure I can fully describe. Gender and identity are complicated subjects. It really does come down to you deciding what is best for you.
Edited by Waspinator, 25 January 2019 - 04:09 PM.