There goes a good 10 years of my life, Yeah my fiancee left me Rating Options

[kizudarake]

I'd highly suggest The Black Keys "Next Girl" over Sugar hugging Ray

Yeah, or blasting Nick Cave and the Bad Seeds' "let love in".


Despair and Deception, Love's ugly little twins
Came a-knocking on my door, I let them in
Darling, you're the punishment for all of my former sins


I let love in
I let love in


The door it opened just a crack, but Love was shrewed and bold
My life flashed before my eyes, it was a horror to behold
A life-sentence sweeping confetti from the floor of a concrete hole


I let love in
I let love in
I let love in
I let love in


Well I've been bound and gagged and I've been terrorized
And I've been castrated and I've been lobotomized
But never has my tormenter come in such a cunning disguise


I let love in
I let love in
I let love in
I let love in


O Lord, tell me what I done
Please don't leave me here alone
Where are my friends?
My friends are gone


O Lord, tell me what I done
Please don't leave me here alone
Where are my friends?
My friends are gone


I let love in
I let love in


So if you're sitting all alone and hear a-knocking at you door
and the air is full of promises, well buddy, you've been warned
Far worse to be Love's lover than the lover that Love has scorned


I let love in
I let love in
I let love in
I let love in
I let love in
I let love in
I let love in
I let love in

[Kalidor]

After my last spectacle, this song helped me get a grip and move on.



Or as I like to call it - "The Jennifer Song"

[Ironbite]

Yeah I've been listening to my Stone Sour station on Pandora and that's helped me a bit. That and talking to people. Really I'll be ok.

And now for the dark portion of this story.

Wanna know something? Had I came home and she had taken my cat with her, I wouldn't be posting here right now. I would've found a bridge and jumped. I thank my little black and white that she's still here and is probably the only thing keeping me going.

Ironbite-though she does get upset when I leave her alone when I have to go run errends.

[Zyking]

Cats are wonderful companions. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/icon-hotrod.gif)

Also, since people are suggesting music.

Gloria Gaynor has awesome tunes. This one in particular is great for building oneself up again. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/icon-arcee.gif)



This post has been edited by Zyking: Mar 12 2012, 03:31 AM

[Rust]

This one helped me when I needed it.

[Saker]

Boooo (IMG:style_emoticons/default/icon-screamer.gif)

This seems to be the year for break ups - I can only think it's a universal shift towards better things (IMG:style_emoticons/default/icon-hotrod.gif) Best of luck getting everything sorted and getting back on your feet.

[Slander]

That sucks on the massive, dude. When you're ready to face the single life, it has plenty of upsides.

-You can finally have all the freaky-weird sex you've been fantasizing about.
-You don't have to hold in farts or burps.
-You don't have to avoid that restaurant you like because she doesn't like the tacos or whatever.
-Pee in the sink. Don't make a habit out of it (because eww,) but you should do it at least once, just because you can.
-Porn on the big screen. Yeah, buddy.

Until you've gotten over the bulk of the pain, avoid:

-Drinking. Alcohol is a depressant. It's not a good treatment for heartbreak.
-Music. A lot of people have posted song suggestions, but really, the best thing to do here is avoid it entirely.
-Romanticoms.
-Bottling. Don't be afraid to fall apart. Yeah, you've got to suck it up and do your job, see your friends, and whatnot. But don't avoid turning into a blubbering idiot when you feel it coming on.

[The Predaking]

What is a Romanticom?

[Glenn]

Which part of Virginia are you moving back to? What kind of job you looking for? and show us this adorable kitty cat!

[Zyking]

What is a Romanticom?

Movies and sitcoms where the really really hot girl finally ditched the douchebag boyfriend and turns her attention to the geeky, dorky guy thats always been there for her and decides that she needs to sex him up quite a bit?

You know, stuff that never happens in real life? (IMG:style_emoticons/default/icon-fire.gif)

[Sobana]

We can relate to how you feel. Our significant other broke up with us the other day and while talking with them today they mentioned how alone they feel without this new person they are with. We assume they left us because they meant this new person even tho we get the feeling this new person doesn't like them in the same way. =/ Now we just feel empty inside.

[Kalidor]

We can relate to how you feel. Our significant other broke up with us the other day and while talking with them today they mentioned how alone they feel without this new person they are with. We assume they left us because they meant this new person even tho we get the feeling this new person doesn't like them in the same way. =/ Now we just feel empty inside.

Are you in a multi partner relationship? At least you still have each other.

[Nyarlathotep]

We can relate to how you feel. Our significant other broke up with us the other day and while talking with them today they mentioned how alone they feel without this new person they are with. We assume they left us because they meant this new person even tho we get the feeling this new person doesn't like them in the same way. =/ Now we just feel empty inside.

Are you in a multi partner relationship? At least you still have each other.

Actually it sounds more like he's using the "Royal We", which was in a pony ep I think.

[Rust]

That or it's a Geth platform.

This post has been edited by Rust: Mar 14 2012, 04:23 AM

[The Predaking]

That's it! I vote that the staff change his user name to Legion!

[Solarstorm]

I figured Sobana had a symbiote.

[Ironbite]

Very odd turn of phrase.

[MonsterFromMars]

Yup the thing that Member0 said is true.

The best thing to do is to think constructively about it and to accept your feelings and emotions about the situation.


I'm going to tell you one thing. I've always had trouble with even getting into relationships and trusting women because of what some guys did to me in elementary school.


I actually had people try to set up false dates and people asking for my number in order to pull these set up takeaways. I saw through it mind. So it wouldn't really work. But it still made it difficult because they created a form of mixed feelings. Mixed feelings between betrayal and trust for me. They actually wanted to turn me into what they wanted to make fun of me as. And the stuff they did was so unbeleivably clever on a psychological level. It's ruined my ability to behave and function rationally or trust other people.

But things like this were done to me so many times over the years.

That one spanish kid actually kept grabbing me by the arm. He was much stronger than me and I wasn't able to fitght back. And he kept saying why don't you have a girlfreind why don't you have a girlfreind.

And mind this wasn't done once. It was done like on more than one day.


But really this set me up to having a lot of anger and hostility towards relationships. And actually ruined my ability to think straight and control my temper.


They basically won by teaching me to associate certain situations with hostility and anger. And I was too young to understand that.

Since I developed a lot of internal anger despite just doing my best to accept what they did and turn the other cheek.


Getting angry is never worth it. It's better to just let the feelings come in get used to them. Accept those feelings and be peacefully introspective about them.

Never let anyone teach you to hate. Because all it does is sabatoge your ability to have peace of mind and happiness. And to actually love the person that you will be able to care for and trust when they do come along. Theres no worth in finally finding what will actually worth and ruining it because of someone elses problems.


I mean it, because it's really difficult when you have to live the rest of your life incapable of loving or trusting anyone anymore. And when you do try to set up with someone. You think they will turn on you and abandon you. Because they'll find out how weak and pathetic you are. And then become like all the other people who bullied you.

This post has been edited by MonsterFromMars: Mar 14 2012, 11:30 AM

[Ironbite]

Forgive me if I start to laugh evily but.......this is just too good to pass up.

Hi,

If your reading this that means your a good person and you're looking to help out a couple of souls who desperately need your help right now. My sister and I moved her from the coast of Oregon, myself to escape an abusive boyfriend, who I am no longer associated with, he doesn't know where I am, nor does he care. We have between us 2 dogs, my dog is a 2 year old Lab Mix who weights around 38 pounds. My sister's dog is a 2 year old Pug who weights about 17 pounds. They are both well trained, quite and sociable boys who are both Crate and potty trained, they were both trained by me and I am a certified Dog trainer, they will alert bark when someone knocks on the door but that is it, they are GOOD Dogs, and they are well behaved. My sister and I are both quite, clean and respectable people, no Drama and no drugs. We are just two woman a bit down on our luck.

My sister gets SSI for her medical disability, we can prove the SSI by bank statements, I myself am currently unemployed but I am out everyday with out fail looking for a Job.

We are currently being evicted from our current residents as when we moved here to Eugene we rented a garage from someone who was renting from a landlord that did not allow subcontracting. So we desperately need somewhere to go. We are willing to take anything, Studio, 1 bedroom. But we can not pay much to start off with. We are not partiers, so their will be no late night comings and goings from us.

Please, if you have anything that will help us out in our time of need.

My sister and I are currently desperately seeking a 1-2 bedroom apartment, and we are in a tight situation. We have about 24 hours to find a new living situation. We are neat and clean and quiet people we are not parties nor will there be any LATE NIGHT comings and goings from us. We don't mind loud neighbors, we get along with most everyone. We currently have 2 dogs a 2 year old Lab Mix who weighs 40 Pounds and a 2 year old Pug who weighs around 17 Pounds. Both are fully potty trained and well trained in general both are friendly and sociable . They are both are quiet and well mannered they will give warning barks if someone comes to the door, but that is it They are very good dogs, and very well trained as I am a licensed Dog Trainer. I very recently escaped an abusive relationship and this is why we moved from the coast I am currently unemployed (but out looking everyday) as we moved here from the coast to escape my situation with my ex, Who is no longer in the picture, I am done with that situation, I am 100% Drama free. He does not know where I am nor does he care. My sister is on SSI and we can prove the status of her SSI with Bank statements. My sister has to have a refrigerator for her medication. When we arrived here in Eugene we rented a garage, and later found out that this was not okay, because the landlord of the property was not allowing sub contracting. So now the landlord is evicting everyone on the property including myself and my sister. And like I said before my sister needs a refrigerator to keep her medications in. You are welcome to check in on our apartment with a maintenance request at any time.

If anyone out there has something that they could put us up, or help us out we would be for ever grateful in our time of need.

Ironbite-KARMA! SUCK IT LONG AND HARD!

[NICKSAUR]

Where'd you find that at?